Remembering Constance Mary Bales Cowper
The College was saddened to learn of the death of Constance Cowper in Melbourne on 3 May 2018 at the grand age of 105. Connie’s death was advised to the College by her nephew Robert Webster (ON 1969 and College Council).
Very few of the Newington Community would know anything about Connie Cowper but she had an extraordinary association with Newington through the Webster Family over many generations.
Born in 1913, Connie had seven brothers who attended Newington. These included Robert’s father Eccleston (Sheck) Webster (ON 1921) and Edward (Ted) Webster (ON 1933), father of Ian Webster (ON 1970 and former College Council member). Other brothers were Garnet (ON 1919), Hayward (ON 1922), Raymond (ON 1926), Llewellyn (ON 1927) and Trevor (ON 1929). Connie and her sister Gwen attended MLC Burwood where Connie was an outstanding sports woman.
Connie married Dennis (Dave) Cowper (ON 1927) who was one of Newington’s most talented athletes. He won a scholarship to Newington College from Mosman Preparatory School and was an outstanding sportsman. He captained the 1st XI cricket team that was co-Premier in 1927. He also played 1st XV rugby and was an outstanding sprinter being GPS Champion. After school he went on to captain the Wallabies against South Africa and the All Blacks and he also ran for Australia in the Empire Games.
Dave and Connie had three sons and their youngest son, Bob Cowper, played cricket for Australia and was the first cricketer to score a Test triple century in Australia, 307 runs v England in Melbourne in 1965-66.
Newington has lost a significant member of our Community. Our condolences to her family from all at Newington.
Robert Webster reflected further on the life of his Aunt.
Constance was the 8th child of the nine children (2 girls and 7 boys) born to Horace and Mary Jane Webster of Bigga, near Crookwell in NSW. The seven boys all attended Newington College and the two girls attended MLC Burwood.
Her Mother, Mary Jane Webster was a devoted Methodist, brought up in the Welsh tradition and she passionately wanted her children to go to a Methodist school and they did.
Horace and Mary Jane Webster had their nine children over a thirteen-year period. Although they made their home at Goonoongla near Bigga, most of the children were born at Chatsworth (near Binda) and the present home of Ian Webster (ON 1970).
Recently Auntie Con recalled what life was like in the country 100 years ago.
The homestead at Goonoongla was a rambling old weatherboard colonial-style house with verandahs and a separate kitchen and scullery. It was close to a permanent creek and whilst we had water tanks, we still drew water for washing from the creek. Mother had her nine children to look after but we also had a few cousins living with us because our Aunty Flo (Florence Clements) I think was often unwell or depressed. I never recall sitting down to a meal with less than 15 people at the table. I often wonder how Mother did it. In those days there was no electricity, no refrigeration or running water. Dad was a great provider so we never lacked for the basics but it was very different to the way people live today. We had a married couple helping with the running of the household. The man cut the wood, drew the water, killed the sheep for meat, milked the cow and tended the vegetable garden and generally kept things going outside the house. His wife cooked, separated the milk and made butter and probably made bread as well. I remember that it took almost a whole sheep every day to feed us all. The boys would go with Dad out to ‘The Alps’ or up to ‘Mount Wells’ and return very hungry. I recall the kitchen table covered in rock cakes and the boys came in like a swarm of locusts and they all went in a flash!
When my sister Gwen and I were older we helped Mother with the laundry, using a wood fired copper and an old mangle to wash and dry the clothes.
Our Mother was a wonderful woman, strong but kind and determined. She and Dad had a wonderful partnership and whilst she was a strict Methodist (no alcohol or gambling), Dad loved racehorses and enjoyed a drink, but never at home. Mother always had time for us when we were growing up.
I was only very young when Mother took us to Sydney so that we could attend school.
Dad bought a house in Addison Road, Marrickville just near Newington and I think the three oldest boys Garnet (Gundy), Heywood (Curly) and Eccleston (Sheck) all started on the same day at Newington College in 1917. The other boys followed them over the next decade or so and Gwen and I caught the train to MLC.
I really don’t know how we all fitted into the house as there was at least 10 of us plus a couple of girls from Bigga who came with us to help in the house. We used to return to Goonoongla for the holidays and help Dad on the property. Often the boys brought friends with them and that’s how I met my future husband Dennis Cowper.