Schoolies is coming up so I thought I would put together some advice for parents and the boys. This was popular last year.

I know as parents we all worry about what might happen and what the schoolies might get up to, but keep things in perspective. The media reports on problems, bad behaviour and crime. Having a good time doesn’t make the headlines.

Some Things to Keep in Mind:

• ID is essential, wear it at all times and don’t fake it
• Eat before or while drinking alcohol (junk food is OK this week). Parents, run through a few simple meals that can be prepared quickly like spaghetti bolognese, tacos, etc.
• Simply say ‘no’ to drugs every time.
• Remember Police will not prosecute those who admit to drug use if they or their friends overdose or have an adverse reaction. Paramedics will help you and are not there to report you. Obviously those caught selling drugs will be prosecuted.
• Be careful about posting images on social media. Police have said that this is their number one concern this year. Charges are most likely to be laid against young people who coerced or forced others to take the indecent images
• Walk away from confrontation – or risk the consequences. Violence tends to spread across a crowd so clear out if a brawl starts.
• Drink plenty of water
• Keep an eye on your drink – never leave it unattended. If you think a friend has had their drink spiked get them medical attention. Don’t leave them alone with a stranger.
• Stay with your mates
• No means NO – unwanted sexual behaviour is a crime. If they don’t listen tell them you are going to throw up – that usually makes them back away.
• If having sex – always use a condom. STI’s are at an all-time high.
• Be especially careful on a balcony – no balcony hopping/planking. I think balconies have been locked in most places now for safety.
• Wear sunscreen. Stay safe in the surf. Don’t swim alone, at night or if drunk. Don’t play holding breath games underwater or similar, this ended in tragedy last year.
• Avoid getting a tattoo – you will most likely regret it
• Keep your accommodation locked to avoid theft

Schoolies venues have wonderful volunteers and professional people to help look after you. Look out for the Red Frog volunteers who provide support, pancake breakfasts, a walk home service and of course red frogs! They are now also in Bali and Fiji. Check out their website www.redfrogs.com.au

If travelling overseas make sure you have travel insurance, make copies of your travel documents and make sure you know the penalties for breaking the rules in the country you are visiting.

Fines (Australia)

• Drinking in a public place (18 years and over): $110
• Underage drinking or possession of liquor in a public place, even if you’re holding a drink for your friend who is over 18: $247
• Being under 18 and found on licensed premises: $330
• If you’re 18 and you supply alcohol to your underage mates you could face a fine of $8800
• If you use a false ID you can be fined over $200
• Buying alcohol over the internet is also illegal if you’re under 18. A maximum court imposed fine of $2,200, or an on-the-spot penalty of $220 applies
• In Queensland, 17 year olds have their drug offences determined in the adult court system.

Parents let your son know that you can be contacted 24 hours a day for any reason, that you love them unconditionally and that you expect them to have a great time and return safely!

My son really enjoyed the Gold Coast last year, when I asked if he had any advice he said ‘go nuts’ and then with a backward glance at me he added ‘safely’!

Sister Margaret Bates
College Nurse