Schoolies is coming up so I thought I would put together some advice for parents and the boys.

I know as parents we all worry about what might happen and what the schoolies might get up to, but keep things in perspective. The media reports on problems, bad behaviour and crime, rather than those who are  having a good time. They don’t make headlines.

Sit down with your son before they leave and run through your concerns. Tell them you want them to have a fun time,  that you expect them to stay safe and to look after each other.

Practical tips:

• ID is essential, wear it at all times and don’t fake it
• Eat before or while drinking alcohol (junk food is OK this week). Parents can run through a few simple meals that can be prepared quickly like spaghetti bolognese, BBQ, tacos.
• Simply say ‘no’ to drugs every time
• Walk away from confrontation—or risk the consequences
• Drink plenty of water
• Keep an eye on your drink—never leave it unattended. If you think a friend has had their drink spiked get them medical attention. Don’t leave them alone with a stranger.
• Stay with your mates
• No means NO—unwanted sexual behaviour is a crime
• If having sex—always carry a condom.
• Be especially careful on a balcony—no balcony hopping/planking
• Wear sunscreen—Stay safe in the surf
• Be careful about posting images on social media.
• Avoid getting a tattoo—you will most likely regret it

Schoolies venues have wonderful volunteers and professional people to help look after you. Look out for the Red Frog volunteers who provide support, pancake breakfasts, a walk home service and of course red frogs! They are now also in Bali and Fiji. Check out their website www.redfrogs.com.au.

If travelling overseas make sure you have travel insurance, make copies of your travel documents and make sure you know the penalties for breaking the rules in the country you are visiting.

Fines (Australia):

• Drinking in a public place (18 years and over): $110
• Underage drinking or possession of liquor in a public place, even if you’re holding a drink for your friend who is over 18: $247
• Being under 18 and found on licensed premises: $330
• Being under 18 and found drinking or just holding a drink for a friend on licensed premises $247
• If you’re 18 and you supply alcohol to your underage mates you could face a fine of $8800

Finish your conversation by letting them know that you can be contacted 24 hours a day, that you love them unconditionally and that you are looking forward to the break………. oops…………that you are looking forward to their safe return!

My 17 year old son is off to the Gold Coast so I know how you feel.

Sister Margaret Bates
School Nurse