A Message from the Head of Lindfield Campus
The Hidden Curriculum – What does it mean to be a Newington boy?
Whilst much is written about the new Australian Curriculum, one of the areas that is often overlooked is a school’s ‘hidden curriculum’. The hidden curriculum is the often unspoken, yet commonly understood messages that are communicated to students through the action, structures and relationships that exist within a school. Interestingly, the hidden curriculum can often be a stronger voice to young students than the organised and obvious learning of the classroom.
To address the ‘hidden curriculum’ we have continued to refine and develop our PALS (Positive Attitudes and Life Skills) program to ensure the unspoken, becomes spoken and made clear to our boys. In the last edition of Prep Talk I unpacked the importance of character for Newington boys, one that we have already begun incorporating into daily conversations with our boys.
Another such area is ‘masculinity’ or put in another way, ‘What does it mean to be a man?” Clearly this is a question that all of our boys will face as they mature and one that is crucial for them to address sooner than later to prepare them for the experiences they will face in the world outside school.
With some of the words from our recent Parent Information Seminar (that focused on Boys’ Education) still ringing in my head, the concept of masculinity was brought to life for me on the weekend with my own eight-year-old son. At the seminar Mr Weekes shared some research conducted by Ian Lillico, an expert in the field of Boys’ Education, about common stereotypes about what it means to be a man. Lillico speaks of four unhelpful stereotypes:
The ‘Boy Code’
The Sturdy Oak – no public grieving, no weakness, no complaining
Boys will be Boys Myth – bravado, strength, violence
The Big Wheel – status, dominance, mask of coolness, avoid shame at all costs
No Sissy Stuff – prohibit feminine feelings, dependence, warmth and empathy
On the weekend our family guinea pig died. My three children reacted in completely different ways, but interestingly it was one of my boys who took it most to heart. For the next hour or so he sobbed and was quite upset. Was this my son being a sissy? Should I have told him to man up and get over it? Absolutely not! He was being a young man, just as my younger son, who responded very differently, was also doing.
As we consider masculinity it is crucial that we provide our boys with a realistic view of life and what it means to be a man. All men are different and difference should be respected and celebrated. What we need to focus on is attributes of character that should be shared by all men. These attributes include, but are not limited to, honesty, fairness, responsibility, acceptance of differences, respect, friendliness and inclusion. We need to engage our boys in conversations about how they treat one another, their parents, other adults and girls so that they realise the importance of character and relationships above themselves or any stereotypical images that might come to mind.
Chris Wyatt
Head of Lindfield Campus